When you find a person, you’ll crave them like a drug, the physical touch, eye contact, their scent, and the need to be beside them in the same room. You’ll miss them just 5 minutes after leaving their side. Being around them makes you feel safe and at home, no matter where you are. Thats a unique connection, a once in a lifetime ![]()
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Hi @Brain27,
Thank you for taking the time to write in to let’s talk! That kind of connection is special when it happens. It is one of the deeper things someone can experience, especially the feeling of being at ease with someone and craving closeness out of recognition rather than neediness
Hi there, happy for you to find such deep connection. Are you questioning if such desire is normal? Or are you sharing your happiness?
On the former, you find someone who truly understands you and care for you. You find it so restful when you are beside this person yet at the same time, you may feel like a burden or you might want this person totally to yourself. And this may not be so healthy. You have cast your wellbeing into the hands of another.
Try and grow yourself as you are with this safe person that you can have a deep connection. Learn to love and care for yourself. It may sound foreign. But we can start by acknowledging our feelings in different areas of our lives and when overwhelmed, go to this safe person to reset and venture out again. #fighting