Small frustrations amplifying to wanting to hurt others

Literally title. But it’s crazier now. I literally had that feeling after a commuter was being inconsiderate. That’s lowk scary. Wanting to hurt someone cause they’re selfish is some mad thing.

I alr know what is causing it.

  1. I’m tired almost all the time because my mind doesn’t rest and is thinking about horrible situations that usually result in my death. So I barely sleep well.

  2. I’m stressed because I am super uncertain about where I am and where im supposed to be.

  3. An unforgiving standard I set for myself that I would hate myself if I don’t meet it. I know it’s bad but I’m addicted. I cannot live without it. If I miss a day, I would be in a worse place than if I never started it.

There’s probably a lot more but I have to wake up at 630 to commute and it’s 130. Man I hate this

hi @user7112,
I understand your frustration to other commuters on public transport.
Your first point, my recommendation is to live everyday by day, as in each day at a time.
Second, if you have a community such as a church community i would recommend joining, other options can also be just hanging out with a certain group of friends that dont trigger you.
Third, theres no real solution to having a unforgiving standard, but you can try to practise gratitude, sleep more and having regular exercise.

  1. Primary Crisis Hotline:
    • Phone Number: 1767 (Samaritans of Singapore – Suicide Prevention Helpline)
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    • Phone Number: 6389 2222 (Institute of Mental Health (IMH) Helpline)
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