Reali don’t understand why haters obviously is do not like you (only we ownself know) but they still have to pretend and act to you …
Don’t like you to join them for lunch or anything else but they still ask do you want to eat do you want to join…
Than when we went to join them in than the haters are not happy and said huh u want to go… Ask where u all go than they don’t feel like answering you… Than all of them take turn to stare at you etc …
Feel like …them… dun ever ask mi such a question if u obviously don’t like me to join … And of coz u will know the scene that they will all start to act pity and innocent like why you so what n what to talk to them like them tis and that…
It must have been exhausting to be going through this cycle when you feel like you’re not welcome but they did it out of courtesy instead of being genuine and authentic.
Hey @Tigeagfreeflly It’s so frustrating when people act like they want you around, but their actions and reactions show the opposite. It feels like they’re being fake, extending invitations only to make you feel unwelcome once you join. I’m sorry that you have to meet and face these people, it is not a pleasant experience for sure. It’s confusing and hurtful, especially when they then play the victim, as if they’re being wronged somehow. It’s natural to feel like telling them to just be straightforward, rather than pretending. Being around that kind of behavior is exhausting, and it’s understandable to want them to stop with the mixed signals and fake friendliness. Hope that you can find strength and support by meeting true friends rather than the fake people around you.