Lonely people convos

hey, this is a space for those out there who are trying to find online friends :slight_smile:
Feel free to input your emotions or what events happened that you enjoyed / didn’t enjoy whenever you want to! (it’s like a daily journal but you have others online who listen to your stories)

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i’ll start of first: its the 2nd day of school since the march holidays ended and i was probably sleeping in class 20% of the time LOL. I’m still not adjusted with the schedule but i had a really great time talking with my table partner while we were waiting for our teacher to come up to our class for 25 minutes HAHA. Anyways, i’m looking forward to going out with my friends on Thursday :slight_smile: oh well… i still have to complete my physics project and revise for my chemistry time practice so I’m gonna do that after I complete my chores!
How was your day like? :slight_smile:

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Thanks for asking @tiredmentally my day was normal but I am excited for my oil paining class tmr hoho :otter: What did you talk about with your table partner ?

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oooh oil painting class sure sounds interesting! How was it like? I love art but definitely not the process of creating it LOL, i’m sure you must have a lot of patience irl.
I mainly asked her some trivial questions cause we aren’t very familiar with each other since we’re in a new class :smiley:

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Hmm well oil painting was more forgiving that I thought haha like its ok to make mistakes cos you can always rectify them so it’s actually rather calming haha :thinking:

Ooo that’s nice hopefully yall get more chances to bond :otter:

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I had physics parctical today, and i’m pretty sure I wouldn’t score as well as I hoped for :frowning: I know I alr didn’t do well for wa1 cause the marking was really really strict and Physics is my worst out of all 3 sciences, so I’m worried about it. Anyways, despite this, I received a good news today! My group got shortlisted for this competition held by anderson serngoon jc and i’m really glad cause we spent so so long on it! (our efforts paid off yay!) Plus, we get to be dismissed from school early and explore the campus a bit when we go there for our final judging! I’m also going to this marine vessel on wednesday for a learning journey and get to skip some lessons which is a huge bonus for me HAHA

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Hehe thats nice to hear all the best for your competetion :otter:

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Hi, I just want to make some friends. I’m often lonely waiting for my husband to come home from work and I can’t work due to my medical condition.

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hihi!! What do u usually do in your free time while waiting for ur husband to come home?

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Housework or I call my family members to talk

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ohh thats nice!! I like to watch kdramas / scroll through instagram when i’m bored lol :stuck_out_tongue:

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I do that too. But now that he’s overseas time seems to feel like it’s crawling

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Haha I would be so bored too if my partner is overseas~~ so i decide for myself that I wouldn’t like to spend my time waiting around cos I don’t like that feeling >< so I actively catch up with friends/family, and I’ll go for activities I enjoy (classes/workshops)!! Then when my partner returns, he’s got stories to share with me and I’ve got experiences to share with him, keeps everything a bit more interesting haha

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I’m staying at my parents place now and I’m actively catching up with my friends

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Nice niceeee!! How’s your health now??

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Not good. I’m seeing a doctor for stomach pains

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People keep saying to love yourself so that people can also love you :((
But why is it so hard to love yourself

I keep on making mistakes :((

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don’t worry about making mistakes. we are all living our lives for the first time after all.

as cheesy as it sounds, we are all perfectly imperfect. find something that people like about you - maybe it’s your long hair, maybe it’s your attention to detail.

we all have something to love about ourselves.

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:cry: :cry: what kind of mistakes do you think you are making when it comes to loving yourself?

alsooo to the note of loving yourself, what do you think it means to love yourself?

I’m not sure if this helps for you, but my definition is that I am only just a person trying my best, and I have my good and bad moments, and when I think of loving myself, I’m thinking of giving myself pats for good days and giving myself hugs on bad days and to give myself permission to feel what I’m feeling at each moment without holding myself to external expectations and pressures.

what do you think self love means to you? maybe somewhat having clarity to this gives you a better idea how to do so
:muscle:t3: :people_hugging:

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Hi @user1297, don’t worry about making mistakes. In fact, embrace making mistakes. Mistakes I believe make us learn new things and make us into a better version of ourselves.

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