[Rant Alert!]
It just doesn’t feel right anymore.
It’s like you have people out there who are so unsettled, unplanned and undetermined but they still want to compare me with them. The fun fact is they are some “distant” relative whom they are “close” with. 
But chill guys, I’m not going to bother about that…
Because, I know where my life is heading.
I know how it’s going to turn out. It’s going to be Awesome!
It’s okay if you don’t know exactly how life is going to turn out. Not everything will happen as expected. Not everything will be as well as predicted. Somethings will turn out to be better. That doesn’t mean you are falling behind, failing or undecided. Just remember the best is yet to come.
hello, I think it is good to focus on your personal progress and growth, like what you have mentioned 
rooting for you op!
Hi @lovelychange
It’s really gladdening to hear that you’ve made up your mind to focus on your personal development despite outside pressures of comparison placed on you, that’s no easy feat!
I’m replying here as I do resonate with your ethos, which I think can be summed up quite nicely with a quote from Forrest Gump:
“Life is like a box of chocolates — you never know what you’re gonna get.”
Just as you can’t tell what flavour is inside a chocolate until you bite into it, you don’t know what experiences, challenges or opportunities life has in store for you until it comes. So we should accept and embrace the unknowns that life throws at us, and have faith that indeed, the best is yet to come. Hope you can reach your destination in life soon OP! 