I unds that the role of a guy is mostly to be a provider and having mental illness may affect ur career, earning power, confidence and charm. So hows dating for u guys?
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Hi @user1138,
In the eyes of a small minority, dating may seem like a merit-based economy where confidence, income, and charm are flawlessly calibrated and mental health struggles automatically disqualify you.
But let’s rewind a little. Our society has already progressed to using person-first vocabulary. It’s Persons with Mental Health Conditions, not some archaic label like “mentally ill guys.”
I strongly believe that women can be providers too, and not just the men. Such patriarchal narratives ought to remain in the past.
In reality, plenty of folks managing mental health challenges still build meaningful careers, date with authenticity, and offer emotional depth that’s actually attractive.
Maybe the real lesson here is unlearning such outdated stereotypes and figuring out that having struggles isn’t a flaw.
Ur liberal beliefs n reality isn’t the same.
Hi Hansolo2000, i am extremely tired of u always in my posts for I don’t know how long already. Its probably been a year or more already. Can you leave me alone? I do appreciate the list of physical support groups that you gave me but its 99 percent of the time conflicts w u. I can’t block you cuz this platform doesnt have the option. U have reported me b4 n i did the same to u n nothing happened either. I have always been ur top people who you replied to all these times and i honestly feel harassed. It’s like i am on your speed dial or something. Like u r obsessed w me. I had been wondering if u r on the spectrum because of ur behavior towards me. I am having a bad year, im relapsing, i come to this mental health platform n i have to deal w u. Once again, please leave me alone. I do not want any interactions with you. Don’t reply to this. I do not want another Hansolo2000 notification, i may not be even able to consume star wars entertainment properly anymore because of u
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