Ok ive posted before abt how i detest my junk -keeping old man. He also got damn irritating behav when he doesn go out, like when we just go to toilet 5mins, he will turn off the fan we using. Or he dw to help with cooking demand to eat early to my mum, but everytime turn down the flame smaller! My social worker said if minor issues, try to ignore for my own calm/ sanity.
But these days due to haze is really hot! outside of bedrm no aircon, so i have 2 fans on. the idiot himself having dementia, late 70s alr everytime dun rem to turn off his own crap! Sometimes can’t tolerate his bullshit, i will snap, but he not the kind to zip the mouth Sure will talk back even if no logic! (I know on this site profanities will get censored) I was pissed he just anyhow throw food scraps, i said if pest come out i’d throw at him and he provoked me level 10 rage.
The labels i use now are understatement of my deepest anger. I’m taking mood meds mainly trigg by his abnormal behav., oh yea then in public so hypocrite, seems like OCPD, from notes a prev therapist showed me. but reading that still made my bp spike, no wonder i have high bp
Those of u with such parents, and cant move away yet how do u cope?