Working a 9am to 6pm job, but realized how mundane the lifestyle it gets. Even going out to get food on the weekend is so tiring. Its like working takes up 80% of your life.
I feel envious of my peers in their early 20s having life figured out for themselves. They seem to have this spark/joy/interest in living, look forward to life opportunities and experiences.
After u have the default things done, then;
not sure if this is possible but maybe taking a day off during the week might spice things up cause when you go out, it isn’t as crowded. plus you might get to enjoy something you don’t normally get to on a weekends
I hear you, and it’s completely valid to feel the way you do. Finding yourself in a repetitive routine can be draining and make it hard to see the joy in daily life. It can also be tough to compare yourself to others, especially when it seems like they have everything figured out. But remember, everyone has their own journey and struggles, even if they don’t always show it.
It’s okay to feel envious sometimes; it’s a natural human emotion. Maybe it could help to find small changes or activities that bring you joy and excitement, even within your current routine. Trying out a new hobby, reconnecting with an old passion, or exploring new places (even if just a different part of town) could help add some variety to your days.
And don’t be too hard on yourself—life is a continuous process of growth and discovery. Your path may be different, but that doesn’t make it any less valuable or meaningful. You’ve got your own unique experiences and strengths that make you who you are.
Is there something specific you enjoy doing or have always wanted to try? Maybe we can brainstorm some ideas together to add a bit more sparkle to your routine.
Probably very hard to rekindle that spark after a few years of corporate slavery. Even if we get to retire. All we can do is trudge on and not pass the misery on by not having children, I suppose.
Not at the moment, feel quite numb to trying new things. They say your early 20s are the best time of your life but i feel numb to the point of trying out new things. Its just not the same anymore. Even just meeting new people is frustrating for me. Its almost like living life on autopilot. So tiring to eat. I see how peers in early 20s getting into romantic relationship and having that spark, but its not happening in my life at all. It just seems dull and boring to be doing everything by myself.
I’ve news for you…it only gets more mundane, dreary and hellish later on as you age. I’m close to age 30 and it’s all downhill from here on out. Ain’t life grand?
Mmm do you recall moments in your past before this phase of your life where you had that spark and joy? :’)
I feel like work is meant for us to be able to earn a living and then enjoy living life, that should always be our priority to lead a meaningful life!! If work gives us purpose that would be even better, but that’s rare to find…
I personally find joy in spending time with ppl I love, so I put it energy and intention into making that happen in my life, cos those moments give me energy to manage my responsibilities~
Not really…have been living life on autopilot.disappointed that in my uni life, no guy coming after me while other people get to experience that. I know shouldnt compare but its difficult to not feel that way…feel have no sense of value as person.
hey dont say that. I too, was studying hard in sch so I missed a lot of chances… You probably were focused on sth so it doesnt mean much.
Just wondering, what is your life goal? Some of my friends just want a place for themselves so they have been saving hard. They have a goal so theyre always looking forward to sth.
But its also ok not to have a life goal. You can set a small goal for this year, etc I wanna travel somewhere. You can then plan for it, watch some youtube videos or even learn the language. Start from sth small, this is what differentiates you from other people who are autopiloting:)
Can’t look back at the past. Can only build new memories in the present that the future u can look back on fondly. Have u tried dating apps, there should be guys queueing up for u over there
My life goal is just trying to survive in this expensive place. I dont have much life goals as im barely surviving.
and thats fineeee. we survive together! i try to find small little wins day by day~ 
otherwise life feels too big too hard sometimes