Hey, 2025 honestly aint as good as i thought it would be yk. Lots of goodbyes, and the hellos well… there are nice people yk, but you aint really anything to te as friends- they alr have their own. Family mostly a nono to talk yk. before, i was an extrovert, but of late, i find theres honestly nothing to say anymore, becos there isnt really anyone who thinks your jokes are funny, or match your vibe, and it get kinda lonely. wonnder if its cos sometimes i jsur act different or jsut am diff…inferiority complex?
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@user1698 Hey, i’s tough when the year doesn’t feel like it’s living up to your hopes, and honestly, those ups and downs can feel like part of the cycle of life, but that doesn’t make them any easier to go through. Thanks for sharing… it’s not easy to admit feeling lonely or out of sync with others.
As we grow older, I do feel that it does get harder to make those deep connections. A lot of people already have their established groups, and it can feel like you’re on the outside looking in when you hang out with these groups. And it’s easy to wonder if it’s something about you, but the truth is, you’re not alone in feeling this way. The world changes, people change, and we change too. Sometimes we just need to find where we can feel at home again. 
Have you ever thought about joining an interest group that vibes with your passions? It could be a hobby, a cause, or something you’ve been curious about. Being around like-minded people might bring a little spark back and help you find that connection you’re missing. It might not fix everything, but it could be a start—and you deserve to feel like you belong.
Hi, thanks for putting this out. Finding people to connect with is ridiculously hard, especially when you still have cherished memories of old friends. This might seem strange advice, but try letting people come to you. It might not seem like it, however a lot of people look for companionship even with friend groups. Be open to others, say hi to the people around you, compliment them, and let them respond… Friendship is a two-way street so instead of focusing on those who drive away, put more energy on cherishing those who stop by for you. If they are the right people, they would respond. Until then, keep trying and don’t lose hope. Find hobbies, interests, anything that you enjoy and try inviting someone who you think might be interested too. Worst case, you’d still have fun. You’ll find the right people eventually, until then, learn to enjoy your own company too.
Thats so true. i lost so many friends in just january