Hii.. I’m a turning 13 boy… I am bisexual, well least I think. I don’t know when I thought I was bisexual but I started liking guys from 10 years old. But anyways, now since I’m In a new environment with people aged 13-16.. I have been feeling weird around the hot and handsome guys in Sec 3(15 yrs) and/or Sec 4. I don’t know how to explain it but I don’t think it’s really love but I just feel something in me. I really would like some advice. I have been consulting a school counsellor but I randomly discovered this site and would like some additional advice…
Hi there securesunflower7837, thank you for reaching out!
Firstly, I just want to say that it takes strength to share something so personal.
What you are feeling are valid and actually really normal. At 13, your emotions are starting to develop, and they can feel confusing and really intense at times, it makes sense that you are not sure what to call them yet. This is the period where you navigate and slowly figure out what those emotions are, and I am glad you are doing it with the support of your school counsellor.
As for the bisexual part, i might not be the right person or is it fair for me to comment or give any advice for it. My only advice would be to continue consulting your school counsellor on it and slowly figure it out at your own pace. What matters is that you are honest with yourself, and you know what you want.
What I will say is that you are doing very well, being able to share and articulate so well, and consulting a school counsellor. You are in good hands securesunflower7837, if you want more support or just a listening ear, feel free to connect with Mindline at 1771 or Whatsapp at 6669-1771.
Thank you so much! I did message a counsellor from your team on WhatsApp and I didn’t really like it..
Welcome! I hear you about reaching out via WhatsApp and did not get a positive response and i am really sorry to hear that. I do not know the context of what went out during the session but i hope future sessions if you do reach out be a fruitful one.
Okay! Thank you so muchh!!