i dont know if anyone else feels like this but its increibly difficult to find the point of life if you arent really social… i dont think i have a single person in my life that cares whether i exist and im exhausted. i keep filling my time with things to do like thats going to make my life meaningful or worth living but i’m just kidding myself. my friends take weeks to respond to my texts if i reach out to them and no one ever reaches out to me. and i have to pretend like its totally fine and always be understanding and never get upset about it. but is it too much to ask for a single person to care a little bit about my existence and not treat me like a chore? i dont have a good relationship with my family either so i genuinely feel like im absolutely alone.
every single day i wake up and go through the motions but the truth is ive never done anything meaningful with my life and there isnt a single person that cares about me. its very difficult to find the point… if you dont have meaningful relationships what is the point of life
Hello @crabs, it sounds like you’re feeling incredibly alone and questioning the meaning of life without meaningful connections. It’s understandable to feel this way when it seems like no one is reaching out. Can you share more about what meaningful relationships mean to you? Like how would you hope for someone to care for you?
I’m sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It sounds incredibly painful to feel so alone and disconnected from those around you. You deserve to feel valued and cared for, and it’s understandable to be frustrated when it seems like your efforts to connect go unnoticed.
Life can be really tough, especially when you don’t have meaningful relationships to lean on. It’s important to acknowledge that your feelings are valid. Searching for purpose can feel overwhelming when it seems like no one is there to share it with you.
May I know if you have considered reaching out to new communities or groups that share your interests? Sometimes, finding people who share a similar passion can lead to more fulfilling relationships. But please know that you’re not alone in this struggle, and it’s okay to feel hurt and seek support. Your existence matters, even if it sometimes feels like it doesn’t.