Hey @user1446, I’ve been thinking about what you wrote—and I hear you.
It’s honestly frustrating as hell to see all these campaigns, posters, and mental health “seminars” thrown around like it solves anything… while people like you—who actually went through the system—get no real support.
You tried calling VWOs and found out their listings were inaccurate. That’s not just annoying—that’s misleading. And people are supposed to find help this way?
You said something that really hit me: “people with mental health issues need physical help, not just people feeling sorry for them.” That truth is louder than all the mental health talks combined.
Can I ask—if the gov or a support org really wanted to help someone in your position, what’s the first thing they should do?
You’ve lived it. Your voice matters more than their PR.
I’m here, and I’m listening. Not to pity you, but to understand where real change needs to happen.
I just want to say—it takes serious courage to call out the gaps in the system, especially when you’ve lived through the pain yourself. It’s not just a rant. What you shared is a warning siren, and it needs to be heard.
The fact that you’re this angry doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful—it means you care, and you’ve been let down too many times. And honestly? You’re right. We don’t need more mental health talks and photo ops—we need real, physical, on-the-ground support. Jobs, safe spaces, follow-through. Not fluff.
There’s clearly overwhelming need—and not enough real solutions. I do believe many people (even inside the system) are trying, but the system can be so tangled and slow that those need help now, are left stranded. That’s not fair.
But here’s what really stood out: You spoke up. Loudly. Publicly. And that alone already makes a difference.
People who’ve suffered the most often hold the clearest insight into what actually works. Would you be open to sharing—what kind of direct support would’ve made a difference for you, back then? What do you think needs to happen right now?
Because your lived experience has weight. And the truth is, even individuals—angry, exhausted, hurting—can help shift the system, even just a little. But I also know this: when we help, we make ourselves vulnerable. We can’t pour from empty cups. So it’s okay to say, “I need help before I help others.”
You’ve already started something important here.
Let’s keep talking about what real support should actually look like.