No more heart to stay at current work place. But too much on my shoulder for me to just let go and ‘zhao’. Afraid that can’t find new suitable job. Relationship with partner not very stable. Duno to go further onot. Duno how to end as well. I’m tired being tied to responsibilities and I duno what step to take next.
Work out your expenses and have a financial plan to know how much you need.
If your boss is open-minded enough, you may want to discuss exploring other roles. You can also start talking to people that you find interest in what they do.
As for your relationship, be truthful and open to discuss with your partner how you feel. But be sensitive and assuring to your partner’s feelings.
Most importantly, take some time to think about what you want in life. You will have a better idea of what you should do.
Hi Oaks
I would like to thank you for courageously bringing up what you are currently experiencing. I can empathise how challenging and overwhelming this period has been for you.
It is fully understandable you’re feeling stuck and undecided which way to go to next. Specifically, you are struggling to decide between leaving your job and staying due to responsibilities, and also unsure about your relationship.
Though it feels insurmountable at this moment, please do not be discouraged. I have compiled here some suggestions for you to consider as part of the plan to better manage and eventually not be too affected by the challenges you are facing.
Take small steps
Break down your concerns into smaller, manageable tasks. Focus on one issue at a time.
Explore new job opportunities
Start looking for new jobs that align with your interests and skills.
Communicate with your partner
Have an open and honest conversation about your feelings and concerns.
Seek support
Talk to trusted friends, family, or a therapist about your emotions and uncertainties.
Reflect on your priorities
Identify what’s most important to you in your life and relationships.
Consider a temporary break
If needed, take a break from your job or relationship to gain clarity.
Practice self-care
Engage in activities that bring you joy and help you relax.
Re-evaluate responsibilities
Assess which responsibilities are truly yours to carry.
Create a plan
Set realistic goals and steps towards your desired outcomes.
Remember, it’s okay to not have all the answers. Take things one step at a time, and be patient with yourself.
Remember, you deserve happiness and fulfillment. Take small steps towards creating positive change in you life♥️.