I am a single young man at this age, I needed a girlfriend or a wife, but I came to Singapore to work, and there is none, so I always work when I get some time. At that time, a friend told me that I can fill both of us with as much happiness, love, and affection as I want for the rest of my life. It is a friendly friendship. You will like it as long as you like it. There is nothing wrong with that.
I like to affirm you for having the courage to share your situation in looking for intimacy which many people are also looking.
It sounds like you might have felt disappointed/frustrated/sad/heartache when you are looking for a partner in Singapore and wasn’t able to find one yet.
Despite having intimacy in your current friendship, it feels like deep down, you still yearn for intimacy in a romantic relationship.
In the process, I would like to invite you to consider:
• how does healthy love look like in the different forms of relationships?
• what healthy boundaries are there in the different forms of relationships?
I wish you all the best in your journey to find a partner and like to share with you a song which I found meaningful in a time of singlehood: You Can’t Hurry Love by Phil Collins
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hi @Jack4321 ,
Not sure how long you’ve been in Singapore already, but welcome! 
Love and belonging are important to us all! Have you tried searching for interest groups on social media? Maybe you can make new friends from there, which may potentially develop further. I wish you all the best!
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hi, thanks for sharing your sentiments with us! im not sure if im comprehending this properly, but it sounds like your friend wishes to become more than friends with you? i agree there’s nothing wrong with that, if both sides are consenting and willing to move forward in the relationship :3 i wish you the best of luck in both finding stable work and a fulfilling relationship 
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