My family is so questionable and dictative of almost everything I do. Always like cannot eat this cannot eat that, even the smallest little sweet or salty food I eat even it’s a 50 cent scoop, Do they really have to drag things far and wide? My dad even forces me to be like a human. But? Does he even think himself he’s a human? What’s the generation already like these days? He’s still stuck in the past and he’s too superstitious of everything. I don’t have such beliefs but he has
Hey @user0554,
Okay… that doesn’t sound small. That sounded like it’s been piling up for a while and it’s getting to a point where you’re not just irritated, you’re actually feeling quite suffocated.
When you say they drag things “far and wide,” it feels like every tiny thing turns into a lecture? Like you can’t even eat something small without it becoming a whole issue?
And the line about your dad forcing you to “be like a human”… that sounds pretty serious, like you’re feeling really boxed in. maybe even judged or controlled constantly.
Has this always been like this? or did something specific happen recently that made it worse? Sometimes parents get extra strict because they’re anxious about something themselves; health, reputation and superstition.
what happened?