long story short, there’s this guy in my class i kinda like. we’re pretty close and i’m also friends with his twin brother (yes their twins and it’s the “omg they look the same” kind of twin), the guy i like is older than his brother
so being a pretty short kid he’s actually pretty tall and i high key like that about him, fight me if you disagree, i think he’s like 170 and i’m not even 160, height diff is that bad yes!
he’s actually pretty nice and sometimes he would invite me to go squash court and hang out with him and a few other friends lol cuz i always stay back to study and sometimes i go there as some of my friends go there too
he’s actually one of those people i’m not afraid to go to if i have something on my mind that i want to rant about, but the last time i confessed to someone that i was close with it turned out pretty bad
rumors has it that he has a gf and i think it’s true but i don’t hear much about her, and i’m too scared to ask his brother about it in case i get busted or smt, and idk if it’s just infatuation but i wanna share
Hi @justagirl thanks for sharing! It’s hard to advise especially when it comes to situations like this where there really isn’t any better or right answer. As long as you’re attentive to your feelings as much as theirs
I’m wondering what is it that you want to do? What feels right for you?
Hi @justagirl, thanks for sharing! I can’t give you much advice on this as it’s highly subjective, but maybe there are some questions you can think about to decide better!
Do you feel it is important that you let him know how you feel? Is it important to you to know how he feels for you?
If you confess, he may accept or reject you. If he accepts you, how might things evolve, and are you mentally prepared for that? If he rejects you, how might that affect the existing friendship you have, and is that important to you?
Do you have more to lose or gain if you find out whether he is already attached?
Hope these questions help, and hope you’ll eventually make the decision you feel is most right!
Hello @justagirl! I think its really nice that you guys have established a trusted connection with one another thus far, playing squash together sounds fun! I was wondering, since you do hang out with him quite frequently, why not just ask casually if he is in a relationship? Perhaps you can sneakily slip it into a conversation asking how he spends his free time? HAHA
I think that you should ponder over confessing your feelings after you have confirmed that he is single! It isn’t weird to ask that question, I assure you!
