Hey there!
Just wondering if it’s wrong to spend longer periods of time studying when you are in uni? I usually spend close to 6 hours daily for self study on weekdays. But lately, my family makes me feel as though I am missing out on my youth just because I have longer study sessions than previously. Don’t worry, I’m not studying all day long. I do have hobbies and usually enjoy my daily commute by not doing anything (not even scrolling social media). I also have tried reading books on my way to uni, which was great. But, am I too kiasu for a 22 year old in Uni?
Hi @lovelychange, it’s good to see you back here!
It’s completely valid to dedicate yourself to your studies, especially when you’re in a season of life where your goals and responsibilities call for that kind of focus.
Six hours of self-study isn’t necessarily excessive. In my line of work, I see many poly/JC/uni students studying in the library for hours, and that’s completely normal. So the fact that you are consciously putting in effort to study is a reflection of your commitment towards your education.
You’re still making space for rest, hobbies, and quiet moments, which shows a healthy balance. The idea that you’re “too kiasu” might stem more from other people’s discomfort with your discipline than any real flaw in your choices. You’re choosing a path that feels meaningful to you right now, and that’s something to be proud of.
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hello! as a student myself, I also noticed myself studying more in teritary education and it is okay to treat your modules with diligence, and I agree that taking ample breaks is just as important 
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hey @lovelychange! honestly i think it’s rlly admirable how dedicated you are to your studies… i’m sure many students wished they had your discipline! everyone has their own priorities and pace, so there’s no “right” amount of time to study as long as it’s working for you. it also sounds like you’re still making space for relaxation and hobbies, which is great — work-life balance is so impt in keeping burnout away! happy studying hahah, it sounds like you’ve got a good rhythm going :’’)
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