Sometimes when work are tough and help are needed, the people around you will be nice to you, making me feel like there is a ‘bond’ being built up. However, when there is no longer a need to work together, thinsg change. People being realistic? But i am feeling sad being helpful but not appreciated
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How did things change? Did you feel like the “bond” disappeared because there’s no effort to get closer together anymore?
Hmmm I can somewhat understand where you are coming from like sometimes after group projects in uni it feels a little transactional 
but I realised that sometimes perhaps I should be the first to extend the olive branch and try connecting after the work is done. If they don’t reciprocate then that’s ok too at least I have tried 
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@Otterworldly yeah exactly things just change like a ‘transaction’ like what you have mentioned. The times spent and OT and all. It felt bad though
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Hmmm yeah it does feel bad but I guess we can try focusing out energy on those that matter more bah and keep a look out for those who genuinely like you wanna build a relationship 
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Thats true! Its just the feeling
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