so i got this friend who on saturday randomly blocked me on everywhere, whatsapp, insta and then one of this friends called me a slur which i wotn say here.
when i tried to ask him what that was about he didnt even reply me and now whatsapp is 1 tick
is it normal to feel lethargic and dissapointed because it kinda broke my heart cuz i actually cared about this friendship
Hi @perspectives,
I am incredibly sorry you’re going through this. To answer your question bluntly, yes, it is completely, 100% normal to feel entirely drained and heartbroken right now. When you actually pour real care and energy into a friendship, getting hit with a sudden, unexplained block on WA/Tele/Insta is a massive shock to the system. NGL at all, but experiencing a sudden end to a friendship (with zero explanation) completely sucks FR.
Your mind is trying to process the rejection, the confusion, and the sheer unfairness of it all at once, so it makes total sense that your body is just feeling heavy and lethargic. You’re grieving a bond you valued, and that takes a massive toll on you.
What makes this even more painful and jarring is the toxic behaviour stacked on top of it. Getting completely ghosted with that agonising single tick on WhatsApp is hard enough, but having one of his friends hurl a slur at you is just uncalled for. That is not okay, regardless of whatever personal difficulty your friend was going through.
Based on my own experience of being suddenly ghosted and blocked by close friends on Tele, I want to emphasise that you did not deserve that treatment at all. While I can’t guarantee that things will improve right away, I believe that with self-care and a conscious effort to heal these emotional wounds, you will begin to feel better over time.
It is incredibly disappointing when people you trusted choose cowardice and cruelty over a mature conversation. I’d encourage you to be gentle with yourself over the next few days. Your energy levels are low because you’ve just taken a really heavy emotional hit.
Hope to check-in with you again soon once the dust has settled. Take as much time as you need OP! 
Have had it happen before… i wasn close to the person and she seemed so friendly but after few days when i texted she just blocked me. Its rude of the person to block… usually they dun want to respond directly. Unfortunately not all ppl want to be friends to the same degree as us
hello, I understand that it can be quite overwhelming after seeing that. I think a good thing is to try to take some time off your phone, perhaps archiving the chat and spend some time engaging in your hobbies. 
Hey there, thanks for sharing something so personal. It’s completely understandable to feel lethargic, disappointed, and heartbroken after something like that.
What happened wasn’t just someone drifting away naturally. From your perspective, a friend suddenly blocked you everywhere, someone called you a slur, and nobody gave you an explanation. That’s a painful way to lose a friendship because it leaves you with confusion on top of the hurt. Your mind naturally wants answers, but you’re not getting any.
When we care about a friendship, we invest trust, memories, and emotional energy into it. So when it ends abruptly, it can feel a lot like grief. It’s normal to feel sad, distracted, tired, or to keep replaying the situation in your head wondering what happened.
The hardest part is that you may not get the explanation you’re hoping for. Right now, you’ve already tried reaching out and asking what was wrong. That’s all you can reasonably do. The silence says more about how they’re handling the situation than it does about your worth as a friend.
For now, be gentle with yourself. You don’t have to convince yourself that you don’t care. You cared, and that’s why it hurts. Sometimes the most painful friendships to lose are the ones we genuinely valued.
@thursday hi are u new on here? Hm yes good idea, i had been blocked without reason so many times before, by strangers. Some becos they said dw to talk anymore, indeed we can focus on other stuff to cope..m
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