Hey, me and my dad is always arguing all the time. Coming from a little bit of a traumatic past (read at own risk), he used to beat me up and stuff after doing tiny mistakes. Today, me and him argued cause my friends and I were discussing about my senior graduation gift. The problem is, he say my friends discussion arent useful, but he cant control people. He sees the world as his own way, i just wish I could talk to someone now. Having an ■■■ dad is actually dog s—. Like im tired of him, he’s giving me no sense of privacy, like any chat he could read it anytime, calls me dumb, say that he doesnt need CCA points to get into the school he wants, and tells me to quit my cca as it is useless, and says 2 points aint gonna help someone like me. I just wish I got a new dad. No judging, no insults, just only pure love.
hi @user9976 ,
Sorry to have learned that. Parents are supposed to make a child feel safe, and no child should hear those things from his/her parents.
I want to let you know that there are people in this world that loves you and needs you. You do not have to go through any of this alone.
Is there a trusted adult you can speak to? Your mom or school counselor works. And please reach out to this community or helplines for help if you feel the need to.
Please stay strong, and take care of yourself! 