Hi, I’m a fresh graduate in my first full-time job and I’m currently in a really terrible mental state. I’ve been crying almost every day and I dread going to work so badly. I constantly feel stressed and anxious, and I’ve been shutting myself in at home ever since work started. Ngl, I feel like I am losing myself.
It’s been close to 8 months in this job, and things haven’t been getting better in terms of my mental health. In fact, it seems like it’s getting worse. I feel like my anxiety has worsened quite badly to the point where I’m seriously considering reaching out to a doctor to get prescribed medication to “fix” myself.
For those who are curious why I’m feeling so stressed — it’s because I feel incredibly incompetent at my job. I feel like I keep screwing things up. I lack the confidence to do things well, and no matter how hard I try, I just feel like I can’t thrive here. This adds to my stress because I hate feeling incapable. (Yes, I know the root of it probably lies in my mentality too.)
I really, really feel like quitting because my mental health has been so bad (truly, it’s quite bad), but part of me feels like the problem is also my weak mindset. So I’m stuck between feeling like I want to leave, but also feeling like I’m the issue and I need to “fix” myself first.
I’ve been going for therapy, but it hasn’t really helped. I even went overseas for a breather, but I came back feeling even more anxious at the thought of going back to work. I am just surviving everyday through crying, warm water and anxiety music to calm my soul down.
Please be kind — I’m sorry for being like this.