i’m 19 in uni and when i started uni, i begin to crave a friendship that are fun, nourishing, a little mischievous, chill, and supportive. but it seems like there’d something about me that always always overthink things every conversations, every interaction i always overanalyse the complexity of the interaction. and every time i want to talk i always think twice and sometimes hold myself back from saying what i want to say or never even say anything because im just so scared. please help me to make friends. i feel super desperate
Hey @centeredraindrop9718, as a uni student myself, it is very normal to crave such friendships as this is probably the last time we will be in a school environment! I hear that you feel extremely cautious approaching friendships and want advice to break free from this tendency. Could you share more about what goes through your mind as you second-guess yourself?