I seriously don’t get her point! Is it my fault she tried to match my old personality?? She’s frustrating me. I really don’t get it. I personally find my other friends to seek help and sometimes even gossip about my own best friend. I don’t know the level of my irrationality now. 
Dear @hi999,
It sounds like you’re feeling really frustrated and maybe a bit misunderstood. It can be challenging when someone tries to fit you into an old version of yourself, especially when you’ve grown and changed. It’s completely natural to seek support and even vent about things that bother you.
It might be helpful to discuss things with your friend and share how you’re feeling. Sometimes, an open and honest conversation can clear up misunderstandings and ease some of that frustration. Please remember that you’re not alone in feeling this way! 
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Hello @hi999 
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It appears that you are experiencing significant frustration and uncertainty regarding your relationship with your closest companion, and this is entirely acceptable. At times, relationships, particularly those that are close, can become complex and disorganised. It is difficult to navigate when one feels that they are being misunderstood or when circumstances do not align as they once did.
You are a human, and emotions can occasionally be overwhelming, particularly when you are negotiating a conflict with someone who holds significant value to you. It is acceptable to experience feelings of irrationality or conflict; it does not indicate that you are a poor person; rather, it indicates that you are attempting to make sense of everything.
You are entitled to experience this frustration. It does not indicate that you are defective or incompetent. Occasionally, individuals undergo growth and development, even within alliances, necessitating a period of time for all parties to acclimatise. It is acceptable to require time to contemplate one’s emotions and to not possess all the answers immediately. Be compassionate towards oneself during this process.