I am 14, my friend is 14. He has severe depression and got pushed out of a friend group and joined me and 2 other people. He keeps on ranting to me about his condition and it is making me very exhausted. What to do? I am not the best guy to handle him because I know manipulation and might try and harm him soon if he keeps on doing this. I feel like there are better options, but they can’t seem to cross my mind. Help ![]()
Hi @dependableshiba3839, hear that it can feel draining to listen to someone that constantly discusses their mental health struggles with you. It can be helpful to establish boundaries with your friend first, by gently bringing it up directly or trying to change the topic the next time he brings it up. It may also help to redirect him to the school counsellor, if you believe that he would benefit from a professional listening ear. Hope this is helpful for you ![]()