Need to destress

My F spouse have daddy issues but thats ok. Her love language are words of affirmation. 90% of the time, ok but the moment i slip up during 10%, she treat me like a kid. She dont trust anyone, including me. She likes to control.

She take everything i say/mention at face value, without waiting for me to finish my chat/convo. She say all the hurtful things and insults everything. I know women are quick to feel while men are based on logic.

Is there a place for me to vent out?