hey, i’m new here and i’m a introvert. I don’t talk much of myself and it’s hard to blend in the crowd as an adult. sometimes it’s too much to handle and i feel a bit empty inside.
i wonder if anyone ever felt this in the fast paced world that everything nowdays is so demanding with high expectations?
Hey @zzzack I hear you. It can feel really heavy trying to keep up with everything while also feeling like you don’t quite fit in. Being an introvert in a fast-moving world with high expectations can be exhausting, and it’s completely natural to feel a bit empty or drained at times.
You’re definitely not alone in feeling this way. Many people experience the same overwhelm, even if it’s not always visible on the outside. It’s okay to take your time, protect your energy, and move at your own pace. Your feelings are valid, and it’s important to be gentle with yourself as you navigate a world that often feels too demanding.
Hi @zzzack , as a fellow introvert, I really agree with your sentiments. Sometimes it just feels like everything is going so fast and kinda cyclical with no end in sight, but yet everyone else around you seems to be coping well. What I like to do to sort of manage this is really to fully let myself relax and enjoy the little things in life that keeps me going, like maybe short trips on the weeknds or little treats to celebrate little wins. All the best! we are all here for you if you ever need someone to talk to 
Hey @zzzack I empathise with you. Sometimes it feels like the world is whizzing by, and that to belong, you’ll have to constantly try to keep up with others, which is exhausting for many introverted people. Having to accommodate to others all the time can mean insufficient alone-time to re-energise.
But it’s okay to have feel this way. Take your time to find the balance that works for you. You can try efforts to become more aware of the time you spend with others and the time you spend by yourself, through journaling and reflection. From there, perhaps you can learn more about how much time you should dedicate to social settings and to yourself.
If you ever feel like chatting with someone, feel free to reach out on this platform, or to your friends and family. Having these small conversations with others can make things a just a tad bit easier! 
hii, thanks for sharing!! it can sure be difficult to keep up with the rapidly changing world, especially in singapore where the pace of life is super fast :3
rest assured that you’re not the only one with this mindset though, it’s a general sentiment shared by quite a lot of people nowadays; you’re not alone!!
it’s always okay to take some space for yourself when you feel overwhelmed, and go back to face challenges after having a good rest. all the best!
Hey @zzzack, thank you for sharing this. It takes courage to open up, especially as an introvert. What you are feeling is something many people can relate to, even if they do not always say it out loud. The world can feel overwhelming with its fast pace and constant expectations, and it is normal to sometimes feel out of place or even empty. You are definitely not alone in this. Many adults, introverts or not, struggle with blending in and keeping up. It is okay to take things at your own pace, give yourself permission to rest, and find smaller, more meaningful connections rather than forcing yourself into the crowd. Your quiet nature can be a strength in a world that often forgets the value of listening and depth.
Just remeber, you are not in this alone:)