Skool srsly about to make me crash out and idk just need advice

I just recently started school, in a new environment as well. What the funny part is that I can be extroverted at times, so when the first day of school started I have already started making friends and not making them feel left out. Now after being in a new school for weeks, I am the one being left out now???

Like I made this group of friends but they are in a fg already( I have a different one but I don’t really feel like they make me feel seen or acknowledged) so I started hanging out with others, call it fg 2. So thsi fg 2 I relate to them so much more and they make me feel acknowledged and we have alot of things in common so they decided to add me in their gc, NOT EVEN A DAY BEING IN THEIR GC, they removed me and made a new one with me in it. But in the other gc they only removed me and not the others, so ofc I asked them y they removed me they replied with the gc was too chaotic. What bs??? Do they think I’m that stupid?? But I didn’t bother giving a damn bc I know that it will cause unnecessary trouble and it will be a waste of my time. Ofc I was sad like I thought I am a part of them now, wtv. I can’t deal with this bru like suddenly I’m being like my old self again, getting more anxious and stressed. I just want to make a proper best friend in school man. Even in my other fg, I don’t even feel like I have a proper friend, everything I talk to them it’s like they feel weirded out by me and I hate it. I just want to feel acknowledged

friendship are really tricky and it takes a lot of trial and error to not make a lot of mistakes. i understand that you are trying hard, but there is sort of a thing where people will be cautious towards a person who is a floater friend who floats from group to group. introverts are also quite defensive towards extroverted people. You might need to take some time before they lower their barriers. People want someone who’s loyal and not someone who floats around, i guess. im still figuring out friendship stuff too

hello @hammy! I understand that these days it can be quite tough to find a “real friend.”. However, it seems like you are genuinely wanting to be friends with others, but they might not appreciate it. It can be frustrating to be left out by a group that you have first formed, but it’s okay; you’ve seen the true colours of them. Take some time to find your real friend and that few will be there for you whenever it is needed. Keep in mind that you just need a handful of close friends and not alot :grin:. All the best in your new school and take things slowly!