Seriously, no one can u trust even ur own ppl !!!
I hear you… and that’s such a heavy feeling to carry. When the people you’re supposed to trust let you down or hurt you, it can feel like the ground beneath you is shaking. It’s exhausting to always have your guard up, especially with those who are supposed to have your back. It can be soooo frustrating…
It’s okay to feel angry or disappointed—it’s valid. Sometimes, trust gets broken, and it can feel like the only option is to rely on yourself. But even though it feels that way now, there are people out there who can be trusted, even if it takes time to find them. It’s okay to take a step back, protect your heart, and focus on yourself, and that’s completely good to do for yourself. You deserve to feel safe and valued, and it’s okay to demand that from the people in your life. Hang in there!
Ive felt similarly at some point too, damn! Coz ppl are never consistent
@Tigeagfreeflly It sounds like you’re feeling deeply betrayed or let down, and that’s a tough emotion to deal with.
I feel that it’s important to be careful with over-generalisations like “no one can be trusted,” as they can make the world feel even more dark and isolating. While it’s true some people may disappoint us, there are also those who genuinely care and can be trusted over time. It’s about finding the right people and giving trust where it’s deserved and not blindly, but also not shutting everyone out.
Take your time to reflect on who has consistently been there for you, and remember it’s okay to set boundaries with those who haven’t. It’s a balance, and while it’s natural to feel guarded after being hurt, I hope that it doesn’t stop you from forming meaningful connections with others who value you as well.