Catfishing

I just got catfished by a person i know and we were being very horny with each other…
Now that i realised i was being catfished, he had spread it on his social media on his ig story and i have no idea what to do. I have other things going on at home (s4 cancer grandmother with sepsis and hatred from friends) so im seeking some guidance on what i should do.

Hi user1415

Thank you for bravely bringing up your experiences and for seeking help. That is a a great first step. I am very sorry to hear that you’re going through this.

Being catfished, especially by someone you know, is understandably emotionally distressing. There was deception, too, and smearing of your reputation. These are hurtful and suggests wilful harm.

I suggest immediately reporting the incident to Instagram and to your school if the perpetrator is from your own school.

Also do consider these:

  1. Take care of yourself: Prioritize your emotional well-being.
  2. Block/limit contact: Restrict the catfisher’s access to you.
  3. Document evidence: Save screenshots, messages, and any relevant information.

To address the situation:

  1. Don’t engage: Avoid confronting or responding to the catfisher.
  2. Seek support: Talk to trusted friends, family, or a school counsellor.

To manage your hurt:

  1. Allow yourself to feel emotions: Process your feelings.
  2. Practice self-compassion: Be kind to yourself.
  3. Focus on self-care: Engage in activities bringing you joy. Spend time with grandmother and set boundaries with friends.

Remember, you did nothing wrong. It could have happened to anyone. Please forgive yourself and take proactive steps to minimise such incidents in future. :heart: