hi everyone, i did an entry on my conflicting feelings for my guy friend and I finally think its time to provide an update. I didn’t tell him anything about my feelings for him, yet I feel a pang of jealousy because he started getting closer to this other group of girls, especially a specific one. Recently her friend even posted a cute video of that girl and him chasing each other around, even landing on a bed together, and i can’t help but be immensely affected and hurt by the ordeal. I’m thinking about making it a point to distance myself from him and see if he’d notice, but through that I believe it’s kinda toxic. It helps me get over him tho… I don’t know. Wanted to know if anyone had any advice on dealing with this kind of situation? thank you so much <3
Hey @lilirantz14, thank you for sharing! From what you’ve shared, it sounds like You have a crush on him, you’re not sure whether he knows, and you felt jealous and hurt by the video of him with another girl.
Maybe you should ask yourself first, what do you want? Do you want to get together with him, or get over him? I think the answer to this question can help you with your dilemma!