Oh i just saw yr reply 
Thanku, that has been settled. But the spineless jerk fogey Doesn deserve to eat coz 
vent anger abt small matter again (else had been a grt fri)
Hey @Fenrispro thanks for sharing with me! Sorry again I forgot to log in goshâŠI spent my time relaxing a lot these days (holiday seasons also less workâŠ)
It sounds like youâve had quite a mixed experience throughout the daysâsome good moments with physio and your friend, but also the draining experience of dealing with someone at home who just seems determined to bring negativity. Itâs frustrating when someone acts out like that, especially with the kind of hostility youâre describing. And pretending to be good when your brother is around? That two-faced behavior can really make things feel even worse, so irritating indeed ughâŠ
Youâre doing the right thing by trying to focus on other things, like your TV or walking away when it gets too much. Itâs not easy to keep your cool in situations like that, but prioritizing your own peace is so important. What you said about the house and the police sounds like youâre setting boundaries, and even if it doesnât change his behavior, itâs clear youâre standing up for yourself (proud of you!)
On a lighter note, I can totally relate to feeling anxious in crowds or while waiting. Itâs such a relatable struggle to see a growing queue and immediately feel that tension rising. Also, skipping those long queues for Hello Kitty or Labubu? Sameâcanât imagine waiting that long unless itâs for something really worth it!
@Enie Hey hey i missed u! Wahh how do u relax? I get a weekly facial and watch some new cartoons, have new Totally spies.
Yea hol season a bit less work, tho i stil have many bags to send and receive parcels. Some can be quite heavy 
colleags absent sigh
Watching some jamie xmas cooking for the fun, gonna eat out for eve. Yea ive alw detest hypocrites.
Have u dealt with passive aggro ppl? I find it hard
@Fenrispro I relax by watching dramas, playing some piano and guitar, recently I also read finish a 2-book novel online haha
I have dealt with passive aggressive people, and yes honestly it is quite hard to handle because they are constantly giving that energy. But I deal with it by either ignoring them, acting dumb to their statements, or sometimes giving back the same energy to them. Itâs never nice to deal with them, but I guess we learn through time.
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Oh actually no need to login to site to reply, its in our email!
How to give back the energy? Ive loudly told off the rude ppl dun affect me but they still continue grumbling. As sensitive more challenging for me
Oh would u like to read my stories? I write fanfics! Abt hot elves 
me too i also watch many dramas
Being xmas week, today i come tot can relax sudd my co decide to have firedrill. In the hot sun 
Its v unlikely wil kena fire its not F&B industry lehh 
Plus awkward coz tod the cowkers present, im not close to them.
Wah u know how to play piano and guitar? Do u go for lessons or just self learn? I listen to music but struggled with basic music theory in secondary and in uni had to take a module to see the notes. All i rem is those olden days composers like mozart alw passed young, got poor health.
My longtime librarian friend just told me she has been taking piano lessons for years! So lately if we meet up for makan she say prefer to save on food, at cheaper places. to me special occasions itâs ok to buy nice food and indulge (after all weâve been deprived by stingy manchild- even if we buy own gardenia bread, the crap way he rants as if $200 bread! - this has been ongoing since we teens, Not normal at all. got 1 time i followed my relative to her nieceâs party wahh so nice, everyone just told me eat more dun have to hold back!
I wanted to go again but kinda awkward coz im not close to the extendeds.
In big groups i listen more than talk⊠i used to join a youth grp felt intensely jealous of this young spoilt girl, she had maid and everything her house new new. the probs she wailed abt like bf dun like her back are Minor issues, â â â â â â â rich. she was that sort of insensitive loud extrovert, drown out when i speak and the rest were her friends so they gave in. Got some secret santa exchange, she made me paiseh gave so many stuff but rejected when i gave to her. Like so loudly in front of ppl she said dun want, wil get fat.
jelly sweets for fucks sake. One main reason why i quit the group⊠it was supposed to be a christian support grp, but they din include me much. At that time, my old man was being a messy Ocdâ these gen Zs din have such level of stress ok! and i couldn find fulltime job
and of course they continued to pray and have faith, coz everything so blissful mah, a few got cars type. Back then i din know about emo immaturity >>> Ya this silly galâs behav EXACTLY, triggered me. I alr said im introvert, so i texted how she decline my gifts made me embarrass, Not sorry. and they sided with her, unfairness to the highest level
Heyy! I learned to play the piano and guitar when I was younger haha but Iâm afraid my skills have went downhill from then.
and Wow, thereâs a lot going on, and I can really feel the emotions youâve been carrying. First off, thanks for sharing so muchâit sounds like youâve been through a lot of frustrating and challenging experiences, both with family and in social groups, and I really get why these things stick with you. Itâs hard when people are insensitive or dismissive, especially when youâre just trying to be genuine.
I love that youâre writing fanfics about hot elves! That sounds super creative and like such a great outlet for you. Writing can be such a comforting escape from all the chaos, and Iâd absolutely be interested in hearing more about your stories if you want to share. Dramas and fanfics really seem like a good balance to counter the stress of day-to-day life.
The fire drill thingâugh, I totally get how awkward and annoying that mustâve been. Being forced into a social setting with coworkers youâre not close to, plus the hot sun? Definitely not the Christmas relaxation vibe anyone wants.
Itâs really hard when youâre in groups where people donât make space for you, especially when they seem so oblivious to their privilege. That girl in the youth group sounds like the type who just bulldozes over everyone and makes everything about herself. I can see how her behavior would trigger youâitâs not just about what she said, but the lack of basic respect and consideration. The fact that the group sided with her after what happened is even more frustrating because it invalidates your feelings completely. Itâs not fair, and tbh I would be upset about itâŠ
Youâve been navigating so many situations where people donât seem to see or appreciate you, and thatâs exhausting⊠But through it all, youâve been finding ways to express yourselfâthrough writing, music, and even venting hereâand thatâs something to be proud of. Youâre handling a lot, and I really hope you can hold onto the things that bring you joy and peace, like your fanfics and dramas. Merry Christmas in advance! Hope you rest well and have a good holiday 
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Im alw uplifted to get yr replies! ( I really get why these things stick with you. Itâs hard when people are insensitive or dismissive, especially when youâre just trying to be genuine-- yes! Precisely!
Wow did u enjoy those music lessons? Ive a friend who is saving money coz she likes to take piano lessons. Ur maths shld be good rite, coz i read that if u know how to see the music notes more inclined maths. For me xd no
Im most confident in language and writing.
This is my main novel fanfic, Sabriel is my OC, and Fenris is one of the hotties i adore! If u google dragonage fenris can see how he looks squeeee! Fenris is introvert
Whereas Zev is outgoing, like spanish.
Most fandoms Elves/ Fae are almost immortal, but in DA they have mortal lifespans like us, flawed, imperfect. I admire Fen so much coz he has ptsd from slavery, but he tries his best 
Oh yea Hapy hols for u too 
Hey @Fenrispro Awww Iâm glad my replied uplift you even by a little hahaha 
I did enjoy those music lessons! Because my music lessons were in a group, so we all had fun learning piano together. My maths is average I guess xD
Language and writing are average for me, so great that you are confident in them! Definitely the skills that are needed nowadayds.
Thanks also for sharing then fanfics! I can see that you are quite excited about them! Iâll give a read when I have the time and finish reading the novels Iâm reading now haha. Hope you had a good holiday!
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Yea my small hol quite ok- treat mum to Dxe dianxiaoer. Its cheaper than putien, and v generous portions. Their duck is awesome. Have u tried? The elders alw pref eastern foods.
How was yr celebration, what type of xmas foods u like? I got a small logcake from 4leaf x x sadly it got too much milk
Me when im by myself or with friend i wil choose western stuff or Mac. And i like campbell type of soups. And choc anything
Wah u are so social u like grp lessons? My friend taking solo piano i think
@hereforyou Hope your xmas has been great
Hello @Fenrispro ! Thanks so sweet of you to wish me but I ended up just resting at home which is still great and chill for me! Hope your xmas has been great and wish you a happy new year!
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Hey @Fenrispro Nice food actually, I havenât tried dianxiaoer but have been wanting to try for sometime. I actually donât celebrate christmas haha so it was rather quiet for me with just resting. I had nice hawker stall foods with ikan bakar haha.
I tend to have Japanese food when going with friends, if not western or korean haha, rarely Chinese because we have that at home.
Group lessons are generally fun and Iâve joined since like 6 years old, so am accustomed to that environment haha.
Ooh what is ikan bakar? I liked some jap foods but the not very well cooked stuff like sushi i got tummyache. Korean food usu spicy rite?
Ya same, chinese often have at home. But dianxiaoer is upgraded
@hereforyou Thats nice. I went to spa to relax and watch Tdp netflix. Coz i dun have it at home
Ikan bakar is like grilled fish with sweet sauce. I like it!
Oh ive tried ayam penyet once. Quite heaty , yes i also like grilled fish from hans! Esp dory
@Enie Weird, i had alw been able to reply via email no need to login. now it say cannot
Hey how hv u been? U busy? Long time din hear from u. I had shoulder pain for few wks, saw gp. That day only a bit block nose :(( now have cough. Sucks, i hate cough
Not easy to sleep. Mucus sucks. I managed not to be sick for few months le. Too many germs
Hey @Fenrispro Thanks for checking! Iâve been good, recently travelling thatâs why havenât been checking my notifications.
How have you been? The season of sickness might just be around due to such a rainy seasonâŠplease take lots of rest. Having mucus and blocked nose sucks, I experience it everyday due to my sinus haha.
But the fact you were able to not be sick for few months shows your strong immunity! Maybe now itâs just a sign from your body that you are sick. Please rest well, recharge, and restart again!