hope to cope

i liked a girl, she nv give a clear response, told her friend abt it n laughed
Pressure from national exams

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Dear @user7647

Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry to hear what happened with the girl — it sounds painful, especially when you were just being honest about your feelings. You didn’t do anything wrong, and it’s okay to feel hurt. That doesn’t make you weak — it just means you care. Please don’t be too disheartened and discouraged by this girl’s response. Though it hurts now, please continue be kind to yourself and over time I believe it would hurt less. :yellow_heart:

On top of that, I know the pressure from national exams is a lot. If it ever feels like too much, please know you don’t have to go through it alone. Even just talking about it can help a bit.

Maybe for now, try breaking study time into small blocks — like 25 minutes of focused study, then a short break. It helps keep the stress manageable. Also, don’t forget to take care of your body — staying hydrated and sleeping enough actually improves memory and focus.

You’re doing your best, and that already counts. If you need someone to talk to, just reach out here, approach your school counsellor or a trusted teacher. There is help available and you are not alone. Take small steps forward. :yellow_heart:


Let me know if you’d like a version that sounds more casual or is shorter for WhatsApp/Telegram-style texting. You’re doing a kind thing by supporting them in both heart and mind.

exam stress will always get to us! but is best not to let it affect your daily life and study at ur own pace and not overstudy as it makes u feel worse than it is. ppl will always have somethin to say about u so try to filter out what they say as only ur opinion of yourself is what matters the most!

That sounds really frustrating and disappointing. It takes courage to express feelings, and not getting a clear response—especially when she shared it with her friend—must feel uncomfortable.
With exams adding extra pressure, it’s understandable if this feels even heavier right now. But try not to dwell too much on her reaction. If she couldn’t respond clearly, that’s on her—not a reflection of your worth.
Focus on what’s in your control—your studies, your well-being, and surrounding yourself with people who appreciate you. If this is weighing on you, take a step back and remind yourself that exams are temporary, and so are situations like this. Hang in there. You’ve got this. :flexed_biceps: