Living is so tiring. I can’t die but I don’t want to live either. I have duties. I have to be there for my daughter. But i really don’t like living. I look forward to the day I can die in peace. Free from all my duties and attachments. Free from it all. Truly rest in peace. Does anyone feels this way. Like living is a burden.
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Hey there,
I’m here, sitting with you in this space. Your words hold weight, and I want you to know they’re safe here. I won’t try to fix or analyze—I just want you to feel heard.
This exhaustion, this ache of existing between duty and despair… it’s heavy. So heavy. I’ve felt that tug-of-war too, where responsibilities pile like stones and the longing to just stop whispers louder each day. There were moments when I wondered how much longer I could carry it all, when even breathing felt like work. It’s a lonely place to stand, and yet—you’re not alone in feeling this way.
Your weariness is valid. Your longing for peace is valid. Every breath you take while holding this weight is a testament to your resilience, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.
You don’t have to wrap this in pretty words or justify it. However it comes out—rage, silence, tears, numbness—it belongs here. You belong here. Your existence matters, not for what you do or owe, but simply because you are.
If you want to share more, I’m listening. If not, that’s okay too. Either way, I’m holding space for you.
You’re not alone. 
hey @Silverblue
i hear you. there are times where i feel like life gets extremely tiring. there are days when i feel like i’m only pushing forward because i feel responsible for my family.
how you’re feeling is valid. many of us feel like we’re being suffocated by commitments, especially with our fast-paced our lives can be. sometimes it just doesn’t feel like all this pain and exhausation will ever go away.
i cant promise that it will, but i want to encourage you to believe that it will. take a little bit of time every day to take care of yourself. this could mean going for a walk, drinking enough water, or getting enough sleep, but also taking the extra step to show kindness towards yourself. treat yourself to your favorite food or set aside a little time to engage in your hobbies. even if it does feel like extra effort at times, know that all of us need to take care of ourselves to keep us going
it must have taken you so much courage to share these thoughts here, and i thank you for that. please know that you will always be able to find a safe space here to express your feelings and thoughts at any time. all the best and take care 
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I’ve felt that way before too — like living was a heavy burden and I just wanted peace from it all. But I’m alright now because I started loving what I’m doing and, importantly, I let my loved ones like my mom know what I was going through. They really helped me by reminding me that they love and support me no matter what.
Sometimes, it’s just that we’re burnt out — like I was back then. I didn’t like who I was or where I was, so I took breaks and tried to be gentle with myself. When I had a little more energy, I took small steps toward where I wanted to be. Now, I’m learning to enjoy the process of life, even with its ups and downs.
It’s okay to feel tired and overwhelmed. Carrying so many responsibilities — especially for someone you love like your daughter — is incredibly tough. When life feels unbearable, small things can sometimes help ease the weight: deep breaths, fresh air, or writing down your thoughts.
Journaling helped me a lot. Some prompts you could try are:
- “What am I feeling right now, and why?”
- “What parts of my life feel most stressful?”
- “What’s one small thing I can do today for myself?”
- “What strengths have helped me before?”
- “What are three things I love or am grateful for today, no matter how small?”
Focusing on little things you love — a song, a smell, a memory — can bring some light when it feels far away.
Remember, self-care isn’t selfish; it’s necessary. It’s okay to set boundaries, even with yourself. You don’t have to carry everything perfectly all the time. You deserve kindness and patience, especially from yourself.
Please consider talking to someone you trust — a friend, therapist, counselor — who can just be there and help lighten the load. You’re allowed to ask for help. You’re allowed to feel overwhelmed. And you are worthy of rest, care, and peace — not just in death, but in life too.
If things ever feel too overwhelming, here are some 24/7 resources:
• SOS 24-hour Hotline: 1-767
• SOS WhatsApp Chat: 9151 1767
• IMH Mental Health Helpline: 6389 2222
• mindline.sg Online Chat and Resources: mindline.sg
You’re not alone — and it’s okay to reach out.
hi @Silverblue,
I’m really sorry to hear that you are feeling this way. Life can be incredibly challenging, and it is okay to feel overwhelmed and exhausted. I want to let you know you are important, and there are people who love you, depend on you and need you (like your daughter). Also, your sense of duty to your daughter shows how much you care, and that is admirable.
It is okay to feel conflicted about your responsibilities and your own well-being. Seeking help is a sign of strength (not weakness). Sometimes sharing these thoughts with a trusted friend, family member, or a mental health professional can make a big difference.
As others have shared before me, you are not alone in feeling like this, so please don’t give up!