School issues; Tired

I have a few friends from primary school, they didnt follow me to my current secondary school and i dont have friends in my secondary school. my classmates say i have a grandmother who got hit by a car (not true) and decided it was a great idea to spread it to the cohort and now everyone thinks that way.
btw i got a 36/100 for my overall for my sec 2 year so i was crying for 2 hours in the classroom and again they had to spread it.:downcast_face_with_sweat:

Sorry to heard that.

I barely have any friends during both my primary and sec school days. And In sec school, people only look for my before i have some of the best results in class. If not meh…

But i do hope you can report this to your school teacher or principal as its consider a form of emotional bullying and should be taken seriously.

And do look for your school counsellor and see if they can link you up with a youth support VWO with after school care and support. Since not having friends is school dont mean you cannot make friend outside after school.

hello op, as a student myself, I can understand the stress you are facing. I understand this is tough for you to share, and I would just like to thank you for sharing. perhaps you can book consultations with your teachers for the subjects to understand your learning gaps? rooting for you op <3

Hi @perspectives thanks for sharing​:heart:being separated from our friends is something that just happens as we move on to different stages of life. It’s really difficult but it does not necessarily mean you will never see them again though, you can still meet up! Making friends in a new environment can be quite difficult and can take a while for some of us, and that’s okay. It sounds like some of your classmates haven’t been treating you nicely and you must be feeling hurt too​:people_hugging::people_hugging: Please know that you don’t have to face this alone and you can reach out to your form teacher and/or school counsellor for help! Sending you hugs ~

Although there have been some mean people out there, there are also really nice people that could be good friends with you but you perhaps haven’t met yet :slight_smile: I hope this doesn’t make you give up entirely on making friends! just remain open to people, kind and genuine and I’m sure you’ll find your tribe one day​:heart::heart:

Some of us feel more deeply especially when it comes to academics. But that’s because it matters to you, and just know although you did not meet your expectations this time, you have all the power now to make changes in the way you learn to improve and do better next time kay :slight_smile: Feel free to share more, we’re here to listen