Hi everyone!
Let’s talk about setting boundaries, specifically with our parents.
Setting boundaries with parents can feel uncomfortable, especially if you were raised to prioritize their expectations over your own needs. But boundaries aren’t about shutting people out, they’re about creating healthier relationships.
It could be about declining a conversation topic, setting limits on how often you communicate, or even establishing emotional distance when needed, boundaries help protect your peace and reinforce mutual respect.
Remember: You’re allowed to say no. You’re allowed to prioritize your well-being. And you don’t need to feel guilty for doing what’s best for you.
What’s one boundary you’ve set with your parents that made a positive impact on your relationship?
Drop your thoughts in the comments!
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Thank you @cottonsoul for bringing this topic up, I really needed some “confirmation” if I am going in the right direction towards this.
Recently, setting boundaries required a lot of grit especially when it concerns others not really knowing their “limits” pertaining how much to ask the other person to accommodate.
But as u said, I am well assured that it’s perfectly okay to say no, especially when the load gets uncomfortably unbearable.
I am glad you discussed this topic, because…phew, it’s tough and being a vulnerable person, I find it especially difficult.
Thank you!
Hi @lovelychange !
I’m so glad this resonated with you! Setting boundaries can definitely take a lot of grit, especially when others may not recognize or respect those limits. It’s completely okay to say no when things become too much, because your well-being matters just as much as anyone else’s
It sounds like you’ve been going through this challenge with a lot of self-awareness.
What has helped you the most in standing firm in your boundaries, even when it feels tough?