I’m learning to accept life for what it is, I’ve been single for over 5 years and not quite sure how to ever date anyone ever again but yesterday that all changed when I witnessed unconditional love the sort I thought only existed in movies my cousin gave birth to a beautiful girl and her husband found new ways to love her more ( it brought me to tears ) the only problem is I don’t think I like men in my country all to much … they prefer to marry from their tribes whereas I’m tribeless.
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Hey @user1360 thanks for sharing your view on life and I’m amazed to see your change through witnessing a birth! Very interesting indeed. It just shows how your positive emotions come into play.
Regarding on acceptance of life for what it is, I actually agree with that point of view. Sometimes, thinking too much about life may bring even more frustration. So I resonate with you on this view as in to just take what life gives me and even if difficulties come by, it will pass eventually.
And towards your love life, it is quite hard to find someone suitable to be honest. And I’m a person that believes in FATE. It’s okay to not like men in your country and I believe we can always look out of the country and broaden our circle. Again, I think it ties with your view of like to accept it as it is, let fate come to you just like how you accept life that comes towards you (great learning experience!).
I hope that you would meet someone great and suited for you one day, and continue this spirit of learning to accept life. Feel free to discuss this topic with me anytime, also curious to learn more about your views! 
Hey @user1360 ! Wow, I never really thought witnessing a birth will have such an impact. I probably would be scared and anxious from all the screaming, blood and chaos. Actually never really thought about it since I’m not at the stage of life.
Anyway I agree with you and I think it’s a great perspective to have on accepting life for what it is! I mean take one step at a time! Sometimes what I plan for in life would not go my way and I think I should be flexible and just ride life. But I think it’s also important not to forget that there are always ways to be/make myself feel/make the situation better and not suck it up all the time.
Also, I think being single nowadays is not being shamed upon and is increasingly common so if you are chill with being single, so be it! Anyway, hope all your wishes come through in life! Cheers!