It is not fair… sometimes we are subjected to being someone else’s mistress when we are not… just because we are pretty-looking… this makes me loathe myself even more… for being pretty
simple answer, people feel good when they humiliate others. Sad to say, there is so many such sickos now. Even in social eservice i see caseworkers with such egos.
Dear @user7096
Thank you for voicing out about the prejudice you experience because you are good looking. Your frustration about the negative remarks and assumptions people make because of your appearance is indeed hurtful and unwarranted. It’s sad when people are careless with their words.
While we cannot control what other people say or do, we can always choose to be kind to ourselves, dear. I therefore encourage you to remind yourself you are fully deserving and worthy of love and respect, always.
Stand guided by your values and continue to focus on what’s important to you in all areas of your life. Choose to spend time with friends and relatives who are genuinely interested in your welfare and limit time with those who do not.
I also encourage you to consider reaching out to the national mindline at 1771 to speak to a counsellor soon. The hotline operates 24/7. I believe speaking to a counsellor can reduce distress and may help you discover if there are elements of bullying or harassment. You will probably need to escalate the case upwards for the perpetrators to be taken to task if there is bullying or harassment. The community here is also happy to provide support so reach out too.