i have been jobless for sometime now, the reason why i quit my job was because of mental stress/politics/office drama that i couldnt or dont know how to deal with. i have a colleague who sat just next to me, he is forever angry/emotional/short tempered sometimes he will just slam/throw things out of his angry or whatever emotions doesnt matter if its from a conversation on his computer or just came out from a meeting.
sitting next to him can be quite stressful because i wouldnt know when he will suddenly get angered and then pour his anger on me. i never have the habit to go and confront him because he is always very loud and fierce.
its very similar to my childhood experience that when my parents fight, my mum would pour her anger on me, i am always very scared that i have done something wrong even when there is nothing wrong. i believe childhood trauma plays an important part of this. as much as i hate to blame on childhood trauma, how should i move on and get past this?
and honestly i hate myself for being this way, and currently jobless because, i am so afraid that i would meet another short tempered person at new workplace. please help T.T